Wednesday, April 09, 2008

Be Willing And God Will Open Doors For You

if you're willing, god will open doors for you.. :)

this is wat i've learnt over the past 1 week plus.. the willingness to do something for God will determines wat God will do for you too.. if you're willing to take out a step of faith, God will be willing to open doors for you.. :) turning back to him, focus on him, and be willing to take actions for him.. :)

recently, god has been dealing with me on relationships with people.. and i see that if i'm willing to put in the effort in maintaining a good relationship with people, he open doors for me to do so.. sometimes i juz feel quite distant from my parents, and god let me notice that the problem lies with me, not them.. when i reach home, i will just walk straight back to my room and on my laptop.. i did not make the effort to try to spend time with them or communicate with them.. but when i'm willing to change, willing to start trying to put in efforts to rebuild a good relationship with them, i see how god leads me and gave me the opportunities to do so.. :)

i once made a prayer to god.. i told him, please use me as a channel to bring people back to him.. please guide me and lead me in doing the right thing for him.. and yes, god listens to my prayers.. he never forgets wat i told him.. i may have forgotten wat i had told him before, but he will remind me instead.. :) i made the same prayer to him once again few days ago.. and he's guiding me and opening doors for me to do wat i have prayed for..

god is good.. other than rebuilding a good relationship with my parents, i also saw how god helps me to get connected back with friends that i've not met up for a long time, and build up a better relationship with friends that are still in touch quite often.. :) recently, i've learnt how to be more open up to people, i've learnt how to take the initiative in dating my friends or even starting a chat with them.. it's a breakthrough for me as i'm quite a quiet and passive person.. :p

i noticed that i do have many good friends around me and i need to continue to put in effort in spending time with them.. maintaining a good relationship with people is a 2-way thing.. it takes effort from both parties.. it may be juz sending a short sms asking them how are they, or meeting up for a short lunch/dinner, or having a short msn chat, or calling them up for a short catch up, it's all ways to get ourselves connected with them.. they might not be responding to us as actively as what we want, but all these are ways to show that we still care about them, we still love them, we still remember them.. it doesn't takes up a lot of our time.. it's the effort and thoughts that really counts.. :) who knows, one day we might need them to encourage us, to support us, to let us know tt we had not been forgotten too.. :p

juz do watever that is within our own abilities and capabilities, for wat we are doing, god sees it and he appreciates it.. it might juz be a little action from you that can change someone's life! we wont know, but god knows.. 试试看, 做做看,一定行!